Amorous Nature of Cancer is all about the home and the emotions. Ideally, a home and family offers one shelter in which they can feel safe and secure, a place of unconditional love and support. Being loved by a Cancerian is unlike quite anything else and it has the power to make a person feel alive. They often have a hard time moving on from a relationship once it is over and can take a long time before they are able to fully get back on their feet.
Amorous Nature of Cancer Woman
A Cancerian woman is a highly sensual woman, and love unlocks the smouldering fire hidden by her diffident manner. Her feelings are too vulnerable for her to risk another overture. As with all the water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces), the quality of trust is very important to her in a relationship. The Cancer woman is very cautious about giving her heart away. The two things she needs more than anything else are love and security, and she offers undying loyalty to a man who makes her feel secure. A betrayal in love is devastating, and takes a long, long time for her to forgive.
Cancer woman can be flirtatious, although her flirting is done in a quiet way. She is not a flamboyant personality, but rather one of gentleness, depth and richness. She is not only romantic; but convinced that love is the secret of life. She wants to discover the secret with the man of her dreams. This special quality makes men feel protective toward her.
A confirmed sentimentalist, she loves to collect mementos from the past and pore over them. She frames old photographs, keeps old letters, stays in touch with old friends. She is devoted to her mate and to her family. Affectionate, romantic, feminine, sympathetic, imaginative and sweetly seductive, this quintessential woman can make home a place that a man never wants to leave.
Amorous Nature of Cancer Man
A Cancerian man is sensual who does not come at any person directly. He would rather play the attentive courtier, the one who brings candy, flowers and takes one to nice places. He falls in love easily, for he is inclined to be a romantic daydreamer. He begins to visualize scenes out of the past or to fantasize about the future. Unfortunately, this also applies when he becomes jealous. He must know that his chosen mate is faithful at all times. His own fidelity runs very deep, and he demands total fealty in return. Anything else is a threat to the stability that he prizes, the security that he needs.
Cancer male is very affectionate, and he certainly does not insist on having a number of women around. He is intensely imaginative and expressive, with remarkable empathy and an instinctive understanding of the human heart, especially of its pain. Loving and attentive, he is willing to go to any lengths to please the object of his desire. He has a gift to amuse and will spoil his partner outrageously if given half a chance.
Above all, he wants the woman of his dreams to share her dreams with him. He is faithful and takes his role as a strong male protector very seriously. He is a very masculine man, not necessarily in an outer show of brawn and ruggedness but in his inner strength of tenderness and sensitivity.
Impressing a Cancer
Cancerians are vulnerable to praise as well as criticism. Let them know directly and forthrightly how much one admires them. Nothing will draw Cancerians out of their shells more readily than the warmth of approval. To impress a Cancerian, show them the softer side of one"s nature.
Cancerians respond to romantic, strongly melodic music, and are inclined to enjoy concerts and opera. Cancerians do not rush headlong into anything. They are essentially cautious about making a commitment. The longer they delay, the less likely that there will be a favourable outcome.
A true Cancerian has an amazing memory that dwells on the past and constantly recalls old wounds.
